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There are several factors that cause children to be like crying. In general, children can become more mellow when in ill condition, tired, or when they are feeling scared and helpless. For this reason, cry it can be one form of emotional expression that is often used children to express their feelings. Especially in children aged under five. With the limited ability they have, crying can be a means to inform the parents that they feel uncomfortable and need something to help overcome them.
Sometimes crying is used as a weapon to get what he wants children. Because according to them with tears, the child can get attention from parents. And usually, in order to soothe the child, parents tend to meet whatever is required if the child can be quiet and stop crying. In situations like this, children learn to use the crying and whining to get something you want. If it so, upbringing of the parent who had a role in shaping the child’s behavior like crying.
In addition to the factors above, personal characteristics may also affect the child’s formation of this behavior like crying. There are certain children who have the personality type that is more sensitive than others, so a little different treatment from the parents or the environment can affect the display of the response.
Crying is a natural expression. Though actually a form of emotional expression is very natural to a child, parents still worry if the child is often enough to cry. To deal with a whiny child, there are a few things to note:
* Identify factors that cause children to be whiny and try to understand the needs of children. Children aged under five have not been able to express desires and feelings appropriately, so often times use crying as an attempt to show that he needed something. For example, children eat regularly, sleep enough.
* Encourage the child to communicate and help the child to be able to express desires and feelings better, without having to cry.
* When children use crying as a weapon to get what they want from parents, the first thing parents need to do is to keep parents not to emotions provoked by the child’s behavior.
* If the child cries, do not give attention to this behavior so the child will gradually learn that by crying, he would not get attention from parents, let alone get what you want.
* When he was still crying, if possible, ask the child to cry in a place that does not disturb anyone. After he is more calm and able to control the crying, ask the child about what had made him cry.
* Give some alternative form of expression that can be done to show the child wants or needs to others, for example by a request through verbal expression.
